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Understanding Self-Care, with Old Towne Counseling

Writer: Don Purnell
Don Purnell
8 hours ago
2 min read

Self-care is a foundational component of ethical and effective counseling practice

because it directly influences a clinician’s capacity to remain present, attuned, and

emotionally regulated with clients.


Counselors routinely engage with individuals experiencing distress, trauma, and complex life challenges, which can create cumulative emotional strain if not balanced with intentional restorative practices.


How many of us have gone home after a long day’s work and jumped directly into the role of husband, wife, caregiver, partner, or friend; this type of behavior can underscore how easily counselors can overlook their own needs while focusing on others.


Developing consistent self-care routines helps prevent burnout, enhances resilience, and sustains the emotional bandwidth required for therapeutic work.



Self-care is also essential for maintaining holistic wellness across physical, emotional,

relational, and spiritual domains.


We should all aspire to develop some non-physical hobbies just in case we become limited from time to time as we age. A key principle in self-care should be that it must be diverse and adaptable.


When counselors nurture multiple dimensions of wellness such as friendships, recreation, spiritual grounding, and meaningful relationships they create a more stable foundation that supports both personal flourishing and professional competence.



Finally, self-care can strengthen professional identity and long-term career sustainability.


Entering the counseling field has required ongoing growth, reflection, and skill

refinement, my self-care practices have helped to ensure that my development arose

from a place of balance rather than depletion.


I have already begun the process of making friends, getting in better shape, and developing relationships with other counselors while participating in professional organizations.


When counselors model healthy self-care, they not only protect their own wellbeing but also embody the very principles they encourage in clients; they are creating congruence, authenticity, and credibility within the therapeutic relationship.

 
 

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Old Towne Counseling is a mental health practice with five locations.  We are located in Mechanicsville, King William and Henrico.  Our team consists of more than 40 mental health therapists, including a Psychologist and Prescribers, all providing evidence-based therapy and medication management. Founded in 2006 we specialize in working with individuals of all ages (including children) and couples therapy. 

 

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